Video conferencing etiquette is a topic people are discussing more and more in 2025. The huge rise in the popularity of video meetings has left many people wondering what etiquette rules they should follow when participating. Virtual meetings aren’t exempt from best practices and do’s and don'ts. Following our 12 virtual etiquette tips will help ensure that yours runs smoothly.
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Performing test runs can save you a lot of future pain and disappointment. We highly recommend you run through our online checklist before starting large or important meetings. You don’t want to be in the terrifying position of having everyone join only to discover that your platform isn’t working as expected.
You guessed it: no pyjamas or bathrobes at online meetings! Remote working gives us some wiggle room in terms of what we wear, but that doesn’t make it a free-for-all. Our rule of thumb is always to dress according to your audience and use common sense.
For informal team meetings, wear comfortable clothes that you normally wear around the house. If you have a job interview or a board presentation, you should break out the smart casual or business casual attire.
Another good rule is to avoid the extreme ends of the dress spectrum. It might come across as sloppy wearing slouchy clothes, but it can appear equally weird turning up to an online team meeting in a three-piece suit.
Ask yourself, “What would I wear if I was attending in person?” dress at this level or the one below.
Lighting and sound are the difference between an amateurish appearance and the sought-after executive look. When it comes to lighting, we recommend you check out our complete lighting guide. For best results, go with three or two-point lighting.
To instantly improve your lighting, follow these golden rules:
You cannot beat a high-quality microphone. Microphones are included in headsets or as stand-alone desk mics. Your default laptop or webcam speaker isn’t going to cut it. High-quality audio will help you keep your audience’s attention.
Your background can cap off a clean and professional set-up or be a distracting eyesore. We recommend you choose a simple background and check out our guide to the best virtual backgrounds.
If you want to go the extra mile, dedicate a specific wall in your office as your background. Choose a simple colour, and your background will always work for you and not against you. Greenscreens offer outstanding quality backgrounds but require the most effort.
Virtual eye contact works the same as in person. It’s much harder to focus on what someone is saying when they aren’t looking straight at you. Lots of us fall into the trap of looking at our colleagues on the screen instead of through our cameras.
Eye contact will help keep everyone focused on what you are saying and make it less likely they will tab out or start multitasking.
Always encourage colleagues to mute their mics when they aren’t talking. This rule should be one of the most important in your company's virtual etiquette handbook. We also advise that you ask your colleagues to turn their cameras off for large meetings.
How many meetings have you participated in that got derailed by an annoying microphone? Doorbells, pet sounds, conversations, crunching and munching- these sounds are your enemies.
Keep distractions to a minimum by making it a requirement to be on mute when it’s not your turn to speak.
The key thing with screen sharing in a meeting is to be careful what you share. You don’t want to click on your chart displaying new subscriber numbers, only to realise you just shared a confidential management email.
A good rule is to keep what you want to share on a separate tab to avoid embarrassing or compromising mix-ups. File-sharing is sometimes a better approach because there is less chance of uploading the wrong document.
Why should your attendees stay focused if you aren’t? This is one of the reasons why maintaining eye contact is so important. If the host appears distracted, you are almost permitting people to focus on something else.
If the host is focused, there is a much higher chance that everyone else will be. In this regard, you will get out what you put in.
Just because you are working remotely, it doesn’t mean it’s okay to be late. Back in the office, it was common for everyone to turn up 5-10 minutes early to have an informal chat or catch up before starting. Nowadays, people join meetings the same minute they start to avoid small talk.
Joining a meeting late in person can be embarrassing, so don’t treat a virtual one any differently.
Engagement is your best friend; make use of it. Interactive tools like hand-raising, Q&A, and polling are great ways of keeping people's attention. We recommend you throw some interactive features into your meeting every ten to fifteen minutes to stop people from losing focus.
Our platform, Digital Samba, has various interactive features, including those mentioned above. Your choice of platform will be key in boosting and maintaining engagement.
If you want to get the most out of your online meetings, you must be prepared. It is considered good etiquette to show up ready, especially if you are the host. Get any notes, materials and files organised well in advance.
You might want to prepare some physical notes to keep you on track during the meeting. One popular technique is to write some ideas or queues on sticky notes and place them around your screen.
Presenting your ideas clearly is considered good practice for in-person meetings, online meetings are the same. Speaking clearly will help ensure you are delivering your point in a way that everyone can understand. It’s common for online meeting participants not to ask the host to repeat themselves if they mumble or have bad audio.
Audio quality comes into play in a big way here. You can speak as clearly as you like, but you will still be hard to understand if you have a bad microphone.
| Practice | Pros | Cons |
|---|---|---|
| Using mute when not speaking | Reduces distractions and improves audio quality | May forget to unmute when it's time to speak |
| Virtual backgrounds | Hides clutter and maintains a professional appearance | Can appear artificial or glitchy if poorly configured |
| Dress code | Encourages professionalism and respect | May feel too formal for casual or internal meetings |
| Eye contact via camera | Boosts engagement and trust with participants | Feels unnatural and can take practice |
Every organisation should have its own rules for online meetings in 2025. A rulebook specific to your organisation's needs will help ensure you get the most out of your virtual communications.
Use our video meeting etiquette tips for inspiration if you are stuck for ideas. You could copy and paste our 12 rules and adapt them later based on trial and error.
It depends on the context. For team check-ins and presentations, yes. For webinars or large calls, it's acceptable to stay off-camera unless asked otherwise.
Natural light facing you works best. If that's not available, use a ring light or soft front lighting and avoid backlighting.
Use a headset or external mic, and always mute when not speaking. Background noise filters in your platform settings can also help.
Only if it's a passive meeting. Otherwise, it's respectful to stay focused and present, especially if you're on camera.
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Absolutely. Start with basic tips like ours and tailor them based on your team’s workflow and culture.
Etiquette rules might seem outdated, but they have a valuable role in ensuring that our online meetings achieve their goals and objectives. Having a set of rules can prevent your team from flying off the rails and going off-topic.
Having a set of rules will save you time and let your colleagues know what you expect. Employees will have an easier time conducting online meetings when they have a set of guidelines they must follow. Feel free to use our 12 etiquette rules to create virtual meeting ground rules for your organisation.
If you would like to try our platform Digital Samba for Meetings, contact our sales team for a live demo.